How do we say 'I Love You!

This past week I received some phone calls, a beautiful card from a friend, a note from a daughter, etc. These gave me so much encouragement that bits of hope are finding a way to my thoughts and heart. Thank You.

I just thought I'd better say thanks to my kids and Todd for putting up with my tough days...

How have they said 'I Love You'?

They have been patient with me, hugged me, tidied the house and helped with laundry. Made their own meals , and let me have some space. Thank You.

I Love You! Is believed if the actions taken say it really loud.

Todd cooked dinner 4 out of 5 nights last week, massaged my painful neck and shoulders so I could have some relief from the chronic pain, put gas in my car, drove kids places, etc. He remembered valentines day and brought me some beautiful red roses - and I love roses. The smell just makes me feel good (if I could I would always have a bouquet on my table).

Friday I had the day off for a doctors appointment and a dentist appointment. It was so good to have a day to sleep in, take care of myself, take my clothes to the drycleaners, etc. All those things that I never have time to do because I'm either enroute to work, at work , or enroute home. (day time - a day off - is such a blessing). And then I made a romantic dinner... Sonia's Parmesan Chicken recipe, Penne Pasta with Marinara sauce, tossed salad, and texas fudge cake. I hunted through some boxes in the garage and found the placemats, we had candles, romantic music and a delicious dinner. The lights were low and dinner was ready when Todd came home. It's funny - the first thing he did was turn on the lights (must be a Grigor thing - the anti romance - just ask my sister in law Tamara). Tyson came in and turned off the romantic music (I'm not listening to that music). I reminded Todd that the candlelight is part of the romantic dinner theme - he thought that was okay.

Conclusion: It is the little things we do that communicate love for each other.

Such an important thing to do when we are going through tough times - we need to stop placing blame - and take time to make an enjoyable moment to share.

It is the little things we do that rob our relationships of love and enjoyment .

It is the harsh words that we speak that start all the trouble.